Sunday, November 28, 2010

Thirty, Flirty and Thriving

I had a WONDERFUL 30th Birthday!
Berke let me sleep in until 8 a.m. I visited my old friend, the gym in the a.m.
Christian and Berke got me some nice gifts (which I had put on my Amazon wish list, so they knew exactly to get me (I say, why not get what you really want)).

After Berke's nap we took the T (Berke refers to it as the Choo Choo) down to the Children's Museum, where we met up with my friend Megan and Berke's pal, Quentin (aka Q). We had a great double mommy/son date. I loved spending time with my little man and seeing him have so much fun playing with all the museum had to offer. I adore how when he wants to try something new, he grabs my finger and pulls me over to the new adventure so we can share the moment together.
Here are the cute boys, Berke and Q; they do so well playing together twice a week.

When we got back, Christian and I left our little man with a sitter and headed out for a night out on the town. This doesn't happen much, so we always enjoy ourselves when it does. We headed to the North End for some yummy Italian food with some fun friends. Then walked to the theater where we saw Harry Potter and The Deathly Hallows Part 1 on the Imax Screen. It was such a treat to not have to worry about the little monkey and just enjoy each others company.

Thanks to all the sweet phone calls (with so many amazing birthday songs), texts, facebook messages, etc. I felt so loved on my big day. I really think I am gonna like my 30's; it is gonna be a great time with lots of exciting changes.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

SNL 30th Birthday Extravaganza

My 30th Birthday is in a few days, but due to the holiday madness, I had my party a bit early. Christian and some great friends threw me a wonderful SNL themed birthday party. Good fun, good laughs, good food and good SNL triva were in attendance!

Our good friend Lauren made this amazing cake just for me! Not only does it look amazing, but the lemon cake and filling inside are to DIE for. So good, so good, soooo good.

Everyone was good to keep the SNL theme alive, even with the food. How could you not enjoy some "schwetty balls" or Betty White's "Crusty Muffins?"
(Please Hulu "The Delicious Dish" if you need further explanation)

This was a costume party and my friends did not disappoint! Here is a run down:

Delta, Delta, Delta. Can I help ya, help ya, help ya!

Wayne and Garth were popular at that party; really though, what is not to love about this dynamic duo? There is still some really great flannel out there.
I wasn't sure who these two were at first, but if you watch the Two A Holes skit, you will see how amazing this costume and the skit are.








If you are not familiar with Garth and Kat, please watch the video below. These two crack me up every time I watch them. We were hoping to perform at the party, but my cold took my voice away and it wasn't able to happen. Not to worry, I am sure there will be more occasions to sing; I mean we still have the wigs, vest and turtle necks!


My 30th Birthday party was a total blast! I love to have so many fun and zany people in my life! Thanks for celebrating with me!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Why 30 seems old

As the 30th anniversary of my birth year approaches I am excited, ready to embrace my 30's. It is a great time full of family making, career, health and wellness, friends and family. After all, haven't you heard that 30 is the new 2o?
I cannot help but feel old however as I look back at how much things have changed in my short 30 years on this earth. I used to think my parents and my friends parents were old as they used to talk about playing video games and an Atari and listen to music on a record player or Eight track tapes. I just thought they must be ancient to have such crazy devices.

Now that I look back as a parent, my kids are gonna think I am an old crazy lady when I tell them that I learned to type on a type writer.
That is right, in middle school typing class, this is what was available to me. You put the paper in the back and roll it through, then start typing. If you make a mistake then you push a back space button that covers up the mistake with white out. If you make too many mistakes then you should just start the entire document over cause it looks like crap. No, you cannot save the changes and no, there is no spell check, so you better make sure you know what you are spelling before you type it in.

When computers did come out they were these awesome Apple computers where the screen was green and the letter you typed in were white. If you wanted to save something you had written then you did it on a big floppy disk. I used to play great games on this computer at my friend Kara's house there was Oregon Trail or Super Sluth. Will my kids believe me when I tell them I didn't have a "real" computer until I went to college and that is when I learned how to type. That is when I got my first e-mail address at age 18. Yes, before that people actually had to call you or send you a written invitation to a party. Evites didn't exist until my mid twenties.

My first video gaming experience was on this bad boy, the original Nintendo. I had lots of fun playing Mario Brothers, Duck Hunt, and Tetris. OK, lets face it, I have ALWAYS sucked at video games. But I had a lot of fun trying with this beautiful machine.

I got one of these hand held Game boys one year for Christmas. Pretty much the most awesome thing ever (at the time). It wasn't a colored screen or anything, but it did the job.

This is called a VHS, it was all the rage when I was growing up. You stuck one of these bad boys into a thing called a VCR (pictured below(yes I still have one in 2010 cause I am just not ready to give it up)), and it plays the movie. There is really no such thing as a scene selection, however if you want to skip a part in the movie you can fast forward. When you are done watching the movie you have to press a button called "rewind" to get the movie back to the beginning, this will take a couple of minutes.

What we have here is a VCR/DVD combo pack. By the time my kids hit 18 I am guessing they will have no clue what a DVD player is, so best to show that now as well. These two devices are used to watch movies.


iPods are very cool, but in the 90's these were even cooler. Everyone had a boom box that played the radio and had a tape player. This was every kid's dream Christmas Present when I was growing up. Pretty sure it is still a dream for my husband.
If you have a tape player, you can play these little devices, called cassette tapes. They fit nicely into the tape player and play music quite well. My first tape was Milli Vanilli who turned out to be two guys who got famous by lip-sinching (how does that happen?) This tape, is a classic 90's tape; Dirty Dancing was one of the best sound tacks of its day.

If you wanted to go on a walk and listen to music, you used one of these amazing devices, called a WALKMAN. Insert cassette tape, push play, put on head phone and walk around. It was the first of it's kind. One of my prized possessions growing up.

Growing up there were no cell phones. We actually had to use a house phone, something I think few homes have anymore. If you were out and about and needed to call home, you had to stop at one of these peculiar places; a telephone booth that contained a pay phone. You could go into the booth, put 35 cents into the phone and make a call. Back in my day, you had to remember every one's phone numbers if you wanted to call them, now with cell phones I barley know my own phone number.
I am beginning to feel like the advancement of technology kinda makes me dumber, does any one else feel this way?

As I got a little older, the pager was where it was at. You carried this stupid little square device and if someone wanted to talk to you they would call a number; then their number would come up on the pager and you would find a phone to call that person back. When my dad bought me one, I pretty much thought I was so flippin' cool, but in hind sight, the pager was really stupid. That may be why it didn't last long (outside the hospital setting), and cell phones came in and they NEVER went out. But they have gotten much smaller and much more complex and versatile.
Let us not forget that there was not always a Nikon D40 to take great pictures. I started out with one of these cameras, called a Polaroid camera. You took a picture with the camera, it spit it out (literally) and give it a few seconds and the picture would appear, it was like magic really. Then came the camera with film; let me be clear you could not view the picture to see if it was good or not, you just had to take it to get developed and see what the result was.

My oh my, things have REALLY changed. So I wasn't feeling that 30 was old, but after doing this post, I kinda feel differently. I guess I will just take my old self, and enjoy my 30's.

Chilly 1/2 Marathon

Last November I ran my 3rd 5K on Thanksgiving Day of 2009. I decided at that point I needed a new goal; I needed to do something more than a 5K. My friend Kelly and I, have been our weight loss/healthier life style journey together, she decided she wanted to do a 1/2 Marathon and I decided to start training for a triathlon. Kelly was doing crazy runs, she would be running 6 and 8 mile runs and I thought she was crazy. I was sticking with running 3 miles and I was fine with that. Five months ago Kelly ran her 1/2 Marathon and I was SO proud of her, I could not believe she had completed such a task. The next day my friend Gloria got this bright idea that we should run a 1/2 marathon as well. I was not feeling excited about this idea at all! She somehow talked me into signing up for a 1/2 marathon that day 5 months away. Kelly had a 20 week training program that she said I could do. I reluctantly signed up and got sick instantly afterward; I doubted myself a lot and my ability to actually run 13.1 miles. I knew this was a huge commitment because if I didn't follow the training schedule I didn't think I could run the race. The training schedule was pretty intense, it had me running 4-5 days a week. Not to mention I was still training for my triathlon at the time.
Flash forward 5 months and I can honestly say I have been "running like a mother." I was lucky enough to train with my pals, Nicole and Kelly as well as my Tuesday night running group. There were some runs I ran by myself and was amazed that one person could run 10 miles by themselves. I really love running with friends, it is great to talk and catch up, it makes the time go by quickly. I will say training for a 1/2 Marathon takes a lot of time and dedication.
(side note: Along the way Gloria (who got me to sign up for the race) decides she hates running and so I made Kelly run the race with me)

Here we are on race day. Kelly and I at 6 a.m. ready to run.

The name of the Marathon was the Chilly 1/2 Marathon and it benefits the American Liver Foundation. I was getting really nervous it was gonna be freezing the day of the race, as it usually is mid November. But the weather Gods were so good to me and it was a good 40 degrees during the race. Don't get me wrong, it was cold and I couldn't feel my toes for the first 3 miles, but it could have been SOOO much colder.

Here we are at the end of the race. I was so happy to see my little family and wonderful friends. I was trying to get Berke's attention in this picture but he was too fascinated by his sticks to cheer his mom on.

HOLY CRAP!!! I FINISHED in 2 hours 18 minutes and 50 seconds. My goal was to finish is 2 1/2 hours, so I met that goal with no problem. The race was great, there were a few hills, one steep hill and some crazy running through traffic. The course was beautiful through the neighborhoods of Newton (nice big beautiful homes) by Boston College Campus. Kelly was a FABULOUS running partner. We just kept giving each other pounds and cheers every time we made it up a hill or made it past another mile marker. We seriously had smiles on our faces the entire race, it was so awesome. The race day adrenaline was huge for me on race day, I was able to shave off 30 seconds of each mile we ran.
I am happy to report I ran the entire race. I stopped only to eat twice for about 30-45 seconds. We ate at 6 miles and again at 10 1/2. I was starting to get pooped at 10 1/2 miles and that chocolate GU really gave me that extra ump that I needed. At mile 12 I started tearing up, I just could NOT believe that I was doing this, that I was actually able and capable of running 13.1 miles in this body of mine. I had made so many excuses for so many years about how I didn't have a runners body which seemed like a good excuse at the time. Hear me out people, ANYTHING is possible that you put your mind to. I never EVER thought I would do something like this.
Here we are with our medals. Wahoo, we did it!

Oh how I love my sweet family; they support me every step of the way. Best cheering section EVER!

My sweet friends were there at the finish line as well. Gloria and Stef are NOT morning people, yet they woke up early to support me and Kel. I cannot say enough wonderful things about the fabulous friends I have. My friend Tracie also came out to cheer me on, she surprised me at mile 6 1/2 and 9; I was not expecting her at all and it was such a great pick me up.
People keep asking me if a Marathon is next and the answer is......not anytime in the near future. The 1/2 was a huge time commitment and it took a lot more time than I wanted away from my family; at this time in my life I just don't have the time to put into training for a full. I am gonna take the winter to do some toning, classes and just enjoy different workouts. I am really ready for a break from running day in and day out; however I don't think I will be able to go with out running.
A huge thanks to everyone who supported me on this journey, weather through cheering me on, running with me, sending me texts, facebook messages, e-mails, etc. I really appreciate everyone supporting me so much.

A day after the marathon and all I can say is my body has never felt so sore. Ouch!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Favorite


Every kid has a favorite "toy" at different points in their lives. Currently these are Berkeley's favorites. He uses his dad's two conducting sticks and this smiley face pencil as his drum sticks; he drums on everything in the house. His very favorite drum set however is the round tin that hold McDuff's toys. Berke just walks around the house with these three items (they are not complete if one is missing) and he hits things, puts them in holes, turns the pages to his books, etc. Hours of entertainment for the little one!

Monday, November 1, 2010

All Hallows Eve (A weekend long celebration)

The year, Berke dressed up as a giraffe. He was pretty cute and pretty resistant to have the giraffe head anywhere near his own. We celebrated all weekend long. Friday night, we attended the Cambridge 1st and 2nd Ward Halloween Party. It was great fun.

This is Berke and his babysitter Megan and his new pal Q, whom he calls Lily.
It isn't so easy to get pictures of little kids; one is hard, two impossible!

This is Berke's little friend Lily (Dorothy). She was his first friend and now all friends get to be called Lily. Isn't she adorable? As you can see, all Berke is interested in is how to steal the candy out of her pumpkin. He later tried, but this girl isn't letting anyone steal her candy!
Saturday night Berke and I headed to RI with some friends to view 5,000 carved pumpkins at a Pumpkin Festival at the William Roger's Zoo.


Halloween night, Berke's little friend Ian (the cowardly lion) came over for dinner, treats and trick o treating.
(This is as good as it gets with the giraffe head on)

Our neighbors LOVE Berke. Two neighbors had big bags of candy ready for the little guy. He also got a card with $5 from the next door neighbors and Agnus, across the street, bought him a special marshmallow vampire sucker.

We traveled around the neighborhood in the little red wagon, which may have been the most adorable part of the evening. That, and how Berke said "thank you" to everyone for their treats.
This little giraffe picked up quickly on taking a piece of candy, putting in his bag and going back for another. He got at least 3-4 pieces of candy at each house (that's my boy!)


I love being a mom. I have waited forever to create these fun holiday traditions with my little ones, and it is well worth it.
Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday!

The Mamma

This chocolate covered face can mean one thing and one thing only....Grandma is in town!!!

I finally got my mom to Boston again, it took me 20 months but she came back. After a long 11 months of not seeing each other, we had an amazing and fun week together.
I tried to give my mom the real New England Fall experience. We went down to the Charles River so I could show her where I get to run and to watch the boat races. We left with lots of free goodies and headed downtown Boston.
The Freedom Trail is always a good walk and full of fun sight seeing. Here we are in front of Paul Revere's home.
We met up with my ladies for dinner in the North End (love me some Italian food) and stopped by Mikes Pastry's for some yummy goodness.
It was so great to have mom here during the week. The two days Christian had school and I worked she stayed at my house and watched Berkeley; they had some wonderful play/bonding time. Mom also cleaned my house, did my dishes, and all the stuff I hate doing. Oh how I love having my mom in town!

Christian was a trooper and took my mom to the Plimouth Plantation exactly one week after taking his own parents there. Berke enjoyed this adventure again.
In true Halloween spirit, we dressed up as witches and headed to Salem, MA.

Are we sexy witches or what?

Sometimes we were naughty witches!

Other times we were Bewitched!

Friday we headed to Newport, RI to see the mansions. We had fun touring the mansions and being silly on the grounds.

The Breakers

The Elms

The time went by so fast. We all had a great time with mom/grandma here, we hope she comes back soon.